If you dropped dead tomorrow, would you children/grandchildren have any idea how to take care of regular duties?
This is a sobering question and one that many of us may think is unnecessary. “I’m in good health”, you might say. “Let my children be children while they’re young. They don’t need to be saddled with adult concerns. Isn’t schoolwork enough?” That was at least my mode of thinking while my children were growing up. They had a few chores, but most of the housework was done by me. Like magic their laundry would appear washed and folded, the bathrooms they used would be cleaned, and the food that they consumed would be purchased, cooked, and on the table.
Then one day we received a call – a call I will never forget. My brother-in-law called to say that his wife (my husband’s beloved sister) had collapsed in a restaurant and was taken to a hospital. It was the last day of school and my daughter was on a field trip to Cedar Pointe, but my husband and I hurried to the hospital. There we learned that his sister was in a coma. She had suffered either a brain aneurysm or a cerebral stroke. We were all in shock. Sixteen years earlier the doctors had found an aneurysm near her optic nerve and she’d had surgery by a highly qualified neurosurgeon. She had a long recovery, but with time she was able to return to her normal routine. It was all a thing of the past. Or so we thought.